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You are way too young to have a THR. You should be glad your orth suggested hip resurfacing. I would ask how many he/she has done. You do want to use an experienced hip resurfacing surgeon if possible. It is a much more difficult surgery than a THR and it take 50-100 resurfacings to get experienced according to quite a few studies.
My doctor, De Smet, has done over 2400 hip resurfacings and over 3000 thrs and he will tell people they should always choose a surgeon with at least 100 resurfs under his/her belt.
I was 61 when I had my hip resurfacing and I did not want a THR. I wanted to save my femur bone so I could have an easy revision later in life if required. When you get a THR they saw off a good section of your femur bone. Then later if you need a revision, they have to break apart the femur bone to get to the long stem of the thr device. Then they wire it back closed. Revisions are more difficult surgeries than the original THRs. So if you start with a hip resurfacing, you have a whole femur bone left to work with later in life.
If you are at the point that you can't sleep at night even with Vicoden and other strong meds, it is time. Why go thru life miserable. You whole life comes to a halt with your hip becomes bone on bone with OA.
I learned a lot before my surgery and could not wait to fly to Belgium and have my BHR by Dr. De Smet. I looked forward to getting my life back without pain.
Pain from a bone on bone hip just keeps creeping into your life and finally it owns you - you do nothing because it controls your life. You will be amazed how well you will feel after surgery. You can look forward to living again.
Don't wait too long or you could miss your window of opportunity for a resurf. It depends on how bad your hip is. If you do a lot of gardening and craft shows, you need to get down on your knees and be able to lift and move. Hip Resurfacing is the surgery that lets you do anything after you heal. You just don't have to worry about your activities at all. You will have to be careful about lwhat THR they would give you. Make sure you would at least get a MOM metal on metal or ceramic on ceramic that matches the size of the ball of your original femur bone.
Again, you are lucky to have a surgeon give you an option for hip resurfacing. Normaly the experienced hip resurfacing surgeons will always give a person a resurf if possible. They understand how difficult revisions are.
I had my hip resurfacing at 61 and should have had one at 51, but I did not know about it. Listen to your Mom- don't walk like an 80 year old woman - get a hip resurfacing and start living again.
Did you read the many personal hip stories on the website? If you want to interact with 6000+ surface hippies, join the large Yahoo Surface Hippy Discussion Group
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/surfacehippy/. You will read hundreds of emails about people just like yourself. This is a pretty small group since I just started it a few months ago.
I hope you will still visit and let us know how you are doing. If and when you decide, I hope you will send me a story to post about your experience. That really helps others and helps you to remember all about your hip replacment. It quickly becomes a distant memory when life gets back to normal.
Let me know if I can give you any more info.
Pat in Ohio
3/15/06 LBHR De Smet