Hey Ruby, it all sounds pretty normal and comparable to what I went through both times. I didn't have the dizzyness, but like Pat mentioned, that may be fixed by change in meds. I was out the door in four days the first time, three the second time around.
Having trouble with getting in and out of bed will be with you for a while, the hip needs to heal and the muscles are ticked off at you. Several of us have used different strategies for getting in and out that cut down on the pain, mine was tucking my undone ankle under the done one and using it to support the movement both in and out - other folks used a crutch, etc.
In context, the pain lessens - most of it was gone fairly quickly for me (four to five weeks), but it still lingers in some fashion for a while, while you heal and recuperate. You will notice though, that the pain of healing and its diminution is nothing like that grinding pain.
Like Pat says, home is a good healing place. You'll make some good progress, be moving around with impunity in no time.