Hey Slade, good to have you here. Most of us have had or are having an HR. I have had two done. Some of us had dysplasia, and some either contemplated or had PAO, so you are at a good place for information.
There are several good surgeons in your (general) area who are very good options; Dr. Gross in South Carolina is definitely a good choice, but Pritchett in Seattle, Rector in Boulder have very good reputations.
Look at the surgeons listed here,
http://www.surfacehippy.info/listofdoctors.phpthis lets you know surgeons and their statistics - the more they have done, the better the result is what we've found here. The turning point seems to be above 200 procedures and the number of successful HRs go up significantly. If you can afford it, or your insurance covers it, go for the best.
As a personal note, I was also talked at by the surgeons I initially went to about not doing HR and going with THR over the metal ions issue. They described the limitations and possibilities of revision with the THR.
I decided to take my chances to go for as fully a functional result as possible. The more I found out about it, the more I realized the metallosis issue, while bad for those of us who get it, was not significant enough to dissuade me, given the benefits possible, and that I found to be true over the last two years. This was a personal choice, but I would do it again in a flash in the same situation.