Mike,
There is probably nothing here I can say that nobody has already mentioned but Ill keep it short and sweet.
I'm 36, I'm a lot like you, very active, coached my kids, heard the same stories from the OS's and on and on and on. Granted at our age it's a tough decision but my family doctor summed it up perfectly......"why hold off as long as you can, get fixed for the now and change your lifestlye, technology will be that much better come second time around if required." Since he told me that I haven't looked back.
I lived in pain since 21, my life has changed forever, my spirits are up and my kids are finally a joy to play with , I'm 9 weeks post op and I feel amazing, groin pain gone ( let me tell you...pre op groin pain.....ouch), in fact all the points that were aching on my right leg and hip joint are gone!!!
My surgeon was one of the few people in my area performing resurfacing, he was relatively a rookie at it with about 25 under his belt. I still went with him with the lack of resurfacing experience. Mind you he has been doing hips for 21 years. Here is where I tend to disagree with the experience thing and needing 100 under the belt. I know resurfacing is a more difficult and percise procedure..I've heard it a thousand times and talked about in depth with my OS. I just feel 100 is a number too high. Doctors are skilled trades people with a lot more schooling than the average tradesperson. I'm a tradesman(electrician) and work with tools day in and day out. We do some very difficult work, I'm talking major conduit work and stuff like that. Granted after 100 times of doing whatever, you'll get it, but I'm confident enough after 15 to 30 times, I'll master whatever I'm doing in the field and thats a confidence thing, the same feeling I had towards my OS. FOLKS, I'M NOT CHALLENGING THE INTEGRITY OR SMARTS OF A DOCTOR, THEY SAVE LIVES AND I HAVE THE UTMOST RESPECT FOR WHAT THEY DO, I HOPE NO OFFENCE IS TAKEN. WHAT I'M COMPARING, IS THE SKILL OF WORKING WITH TOOLS AND GETTING THE HANDS DIRTY. LETS FACE IT, YOU WANT SOME BODY WHO CAN ACTUALLY TURN A SCREWDRIVER, HIT A HAMMER. HOW MANY PEOPLE DO WE KNOW THAT CAN'T DO EITHER. A DOCTOR SHOULDN'T BE DIFFERENT.
Day one of meeting my third OS, I knew this was the guy I wanted. As I meet him he looks at my x-ray and says " man you are wayyyy too young to have this problem". He looks at me and says " I love performing surgery and I would love to get in there right now....but before we do anything....lets walk before we run..." Meaning lets take every action possible before we make the final decision. First, tried a few different pain killers....nothing. Second, went for the cortisone shot.....nothing. We were running out of options and finally the decision was mine. I'm not going to lie I chickened out and pulled the pin, I thought I'd fool myself and believe my hip would heal up one last time....negative. Finally, I packed up drove to his office and booked my time in. Keep in mind, I had gone through all of this with 2 previous OS's, the difference was they himmed and hawed about my age and having it done. I went through physio, chiorpractors, acupuncture, pain killers, cortisone, mri's, x-rays. Bottom line, I got it done.
Not so short and sweet,
Eugene
Toronto, Canada