Hi Susan,
Sorry you've had to join the club, but it is filled with wonderful people ready to help.
I live in the Norcross area and have been seeking a hip doc solution for many months. Dr Kress at Resurgens Ortho suggested a poly on metal total joint replacement in 08/2006, and did not bother to mention resurfacing is part of the universe. He also made a case for metal on metal causing dangerous levels of metal ions that amount to too much risk. Most other US ortho docs I've talked to consider resurfacing unproven technology. I've concluded most of them are either ignorant of the documented progress made, or they do not offer it for sale yet, so why acknowledge it.
To make a long story shorter, many people - including myself - will tell you that it is far, far more important to choose the surgeon with the right skill level. The learning curve for the more technically demanding hip resurfacing is estimated to be about 100 procedures. Why even consider being within that group when you know their long-term results will be at higher risk of problems. Geography and temporary convenience are not worthy of factoring into the decision which will impact the quality of the rest of a person's life. Besides, you know about one of the best resurfacing docs in the world, Dr. Gross, and he is only a few miles away in S. Carolina. He and the members of his team that I have interacted with, are really nice people. That is the perspective I've developed and wish to share.
I was scheduled to have surgery with Dr. Gross in mid-March. Despite 2 months of pleading with them, my insurance company, Humana, refused to give even a broad, uncommitted estimate of what they might pay. Being out-of-network, the surgery by Dr. Gross could be billed for a total $45K to $60K. Since I did not want to write such a large blank check, I canceled the surgery by Dr. Gross. It was one of life's most unpleasant moments, but prudent.
Now I'm surprised to hear myself say that I'm scheduled to go to India on May 27 and become a Bose hippie on May 31. Surprised, but I know it is the right decision for my circumstances. My total expenses are largely defined by Dr. Bose offering a package price of $7,000. Adding travel and hotel expenses, the total can be kept to around $10K. I am dreading the very long flights, but others have repeatedly observed, it is best to consider the travel time as just one day of an entire life.
Good luck in reaching the best decision for your circumstances. If you want to discuss anything, send me a private email with your phone and best time to contact you.
Del