Johnny D:
I am just entering my second week post op. I am naturally dealing with pain and stiffness, but without hesitation, I would do it again. I had my right knee done twice, my right shoulder, and now my left hip. I spent some tiime contemplating because I was ONLY 49. General public folks were constantly negative about replacement because "once you do that, then what". The general message was to wait as long as possible. The folks I know, know almost nothing about resurfacing. So, how did I make my decision? A couple of years ago, I went back to see my ortho doc after a very successful knee scope and follow up with Synvisc. He looked over my hip and said there was nothing more that he could do with it and to let him know when I couldn't take it anymore and/or would be ready for surgery. He was leaving that weekend to go and learn about resurfacing as he couldn't get trained in the U.S. In the two years that I waited, I was in pain most days. I walked less with my dogs. I started golfing using a cart instead of walking the course. I played and officiated less hockey. I stopped biking. I started using Benedryl to try to get some sleep.
A couple of kickers as I followed the general public sentiment to "wait as long as possible". I saw my doc a few months ago. I saw more detailed x-ray images. My hip bone was essentially square, there was significant impingement and three lovely fingers of arthritis. He told me surgery was inevitable but to wait until I was ready. Inevitability was a huge wake up call.
Second, I had quit playing hockey in mid season (January) because I couldn't sleep and couldn't take the morning after. I greatly limited my officiating, and never worked games on back to back days. My partner commented on my decreasing ability to pivot (square bone, round socket-go figure).
Ultimately, I sat down one morning, stiff and sore and asked myself, What am I doing? I was slowly but surely losing all of the activities that not only brought me joy, but were very good for my general health. And I was losing these because... I should put off surgery as long as possible???!!! And quality of life during that time.... It just became crazy in my mind (not that my mind doesn't tap into that place on a regular basis
) to just keep enduring day to day. For what??
So, I love golf, I love hockey. I had to make a call. I finished the hockey season (at least officiating) and set up my surgery knowing I will miss most but hopefully not all of this golf season. I'm hoping to pick up some short game in July or August and try to start playing full after that. I'm enduring moments right now, knowing the future is VERY bright. I was excited to get the surgery and excited to be done. Now, I'm just trying to keep things under raps, and measure success SLOWLY so I don't screw up the works BUT, I would do it again in a heartbeat. God bless, and good luck with your decision. At 49, active and male, resurfacing was an easy call for me. Keep reading this board. For me I received a well rounded insight here.
Take care,
Joe