Hi
Welcome to Hip Talk. The fact is that you chose your surgeon and I am sure he told you what his post op protocol was. That is always something a patient should ask before deciding on a surgeon. Therefore, you definitely need to listen to him. You paid him a lot of money, had faith in him to cut you open for major surgery and seem to have no problems. So no matter what other people do, you can't play doctor and decide what you should do. Listen to your surgeon. There may be reasons for his being conservative.
You don't want to do anything to compromise your new hip resurfacing.
You can't judge your recovery by other people's. I was on one crutch at 4 days and none at 3 weeks - but my surgeon had done over 3000 resurfacings and that was his typical post op protocol. That is why I went to him. When you choose a surgeon, you need to ask the questions about what to expect. If you decide to break his/her protocol and have an accident diving - you will be resonsible for not having a doctors permission. Watch what you do.
Be patient and listen to the doctor you paid to do your surgery. You could regret not doing so. Each persons recovery is their own and happens on their own time schedule. You will have plenty of time to hit the gym in a few weeks. Again, your physical therapist is not your doctor. If you want to jump ahead - call your doctors office and ask his permission.
Actually when you say no one waits 6 weeks to go to the gym or drop the crutches - you are wrong. I know people on crutches for months and have problems for a year. It depends on the person and their previous hip problem. So don't feel you are alone waiting to get back into life - you are not.
Pat