My hip resurfacing is scheduled for mid January. I was thrilled to find out I was a candidate , yet almost out of the window when resurfacing could be done. Your posts scare me a little. My surgeon has years of experience with THR, but he has only done a resurfacing or two. I do know his stats with THR are excellent. Sadly, it's an insurance issue and I have no choice on where to go. I am a nurse and the hospital where I work is self insured. If anyone in our system offers the procedure, I cannot elect to go elsewhere unless I can pay for the surgery myself.
I find the "are you ready for surgery" piece to be the hardest decision. I have seen two orthopedist for the first time since I was a teen and I still find the decision to be difficult.
I was in a car wreck 35 years ago and fractured my pelvis at the age of 13. I had a crusty old orthopedist who first told me it would be 4-6 months before I would be done with crutches, wheelchairs, walkers, etc. He went away for a month and I loved his associate who was so kind. The first doctor returned, cursing, screaming, etc. My mother requested my care be turned over to the doctor I liked, so I was walked and discharged from the hospital by the crusty doctor with no type of PT or anything. On a return visit, the next year, he screamed "you are the girl who did not want me for her doctor."
I only had a big arthritis flare after my second child was born. (I think I have been attributing my arthritis s/s for a long time to other things.) I can remember my hip pain being so bad in the winter that I would have to soak in a hot tub before I could weight bear or get ready for work. In the last 15 years, I thought I was suffering from fibromyalgia. Although I did stretches and exercises with my post cardiac rehab patients, I would come home exhausted with muscle pain & spasms which often turned in to severe migraines. I basically would be done only to recover in time to return to work. Over time, I was able to do less and less after work and it started getting harder and harder to work through all the muscle aches and pains in the morning. Occasionally, I would see a chiropractor or a PT to have my muscles released since they would shorten and tighten. Both made comments about my source of real pain seemed to be coming from my non-aching hip. The little things I remember is buying a firm couch and not being able to lay on the couch because it was “too firm” and hurt my hip and back. This was 12 years ago. Three years ago, I bought a new mattress set with a plush pillow top and ended up adding a 4 inch tempurpedic topper because it hurt so bad to sleep on the set.
Summer before last, I would have pain swimming and discovered being in a pool less than 88 degrees would start muscle spasms, pain and pain in my hip.. Last winter, my blood pressure was very high. I finally told my doctor that I didn't think my blood pressure would come down because my hip was hurting and felt in bed just like it did years ago when it was broke. The x-rays revealed "bone on bone" severe osteoarthritis of my left hip. I ended up taking the maximum amount of Ibuprofen around the clock with some improvement, but every 3-4 hours I would experience break through pain. The first orthopedist I saw put me on Mobic and Loratab. Although I still get muscle spasms if I do too much, I haven’t had a single migraine since I started the Ibuprofen. I was told because I am not 50, I needed to put off surgery as long as possible since I could only have THR done once and “no credible doctor would do hip resurfacing.” I felt like he was talking out of both sides of his mouth. He told me to wait getting the surgery, but I needed a handicapped sticker for my car and had needed it for some time.
Anyway, I have worked with staff development for the past seven years. I am having trouble standing to teach a class. I ride an electronic cart to grocery shop. I can’t bend and get things off the floor. I can’t lift anything very heavy. I am having to pay someone to clean my house. I take a half of Loratab about 4 times a week. I could do it nightly, but I do fear addiction. A full one drugs me up so much that I sleep for around 9 hours. When I wake up, I am still in a lot of pain because I didn’t toss and turn as much as I needed to do so my hip still hurts. A half dose keeps me awake and mobile. I feel I have little quality to my life at 49 and yet, when an orthopedist looks at me and says, “so you really can’t take the pain anymore?“ I feel like I am a wimp. I am sure if I didn’t have to work, I could pace myself for a few more years. I have heard how bad many people’s hips are prior to T”HR and mine isn’t as bad. I know some things need to be documented for insurance purposes and legal purposes, but I would like to live my life again.
When I told my children about my hip, they weren't surprised. They both commented on how little physically I could do with them when they were little. My daughter said she has noticed that I have been dragging my leg for several years. I also have fallen a few times because some days it is hard to pick up my left foot. I hate those public doors with the metal raised piece at the bottom. Anyway, some encouragement, tips, etc. would be appreciated.