Well, I had hoped to update this earlier, but I couldn't remember my password...
I had a right BHR performed by Dr. Klug on 9/21, and things have gone pretty smoothly, although I'm amazed at how quickly some of you have recovered...
The surgery went fine - the surgeon found that the outside of my femoral head was dead, chalky bone, but once he started chipping it away, he found healthy bone. So I avoided my greatest concern - a total hip replacement. I spent 3 days in the hospital (Kaiser Roseville), and that was a mixed experience, but it was positive overall. Came home the Friday after my surgery, and it's been a little better every day since then.
Spent a week or so on a walker, and then moved to crutches. Another week, down to one crutch. I've been on a cane for 2 weeks now, and am spending more and more time without it. Spent the first 4 weeks in a hospital bed in the den, which allowed my wife to get some rest, and allowed me to be a lot more comfortable than in my regular bed (I HIGHLY reccommend it if your plan covers it, or if you can afford it).
One thing my Dr did not do is prescribe any PT (he told me that most of his patients do fine without it - the functionality comes back naturally). The last time I saw the surgeon was the day after my surgery, and I won't see him again until my first follow-up appointment on Nov. 9th. Part of it is because I live a fair distance away, and we've traded emails back and forth, but it seemed odd to have little to no face-to-face time with the surgeon.
I'm glad I did it - I'm far from 100%, but the hip pain is gone, and the muscle pain in my thigh is getting less every day. I'm looking forward to being able to play with my 10 year old again.
Chris