Hi
Welcome to hip talk. Is your doctor suggesting you use a skilled nursing facility post op?
I was 61 when I had my hip resurfacing. I used Dr. De Smet in Belgium. I was in the hospital 2 1/2 days, then went back to the Holiday Inn for 9 days. We had our PT there. We all ate 3 meals together each day in the resturant and partied in the lounge every night. There were 8 of us. I did have my husband with me. He helped me with my TEDS removing them at night and putting them on in the morning. Other than that, there was no need for any help. I was on one crutch at 4 days and no crutch at 4 weeks. I was sightseeing in Ghent 7 days post op with others. We learned to do stairs in the hospital. By the time we flew home on day 10, I was walking 3/4 of a mile with one crutch.
Hip resurfacing is a major operation like a THR, but your recovery normally is fast and easy. I took no meds except Advil after leaving the hospital 2 1/2 days post op. When I got home, I decided to do PT and they only kept me 3 sessions since I was so far ahead of the THR patients. They did not know what to do with me except tell me to stop using the crutch, which I did not do until 4 weeks post op. Dr. De Smet tells you to use a crutch until you don't limp.
I can't imagine why you would need a nursing home. You can do anything you want several days after surgery. You learn to do stairs and if you are on one crutch you can walk around carrying things.
I was not in good physical shape since I could not do anything due to terrible hip pain. If I had to have my other hip done, I would strengthen my upper body so I could use the crutch better. In Europe they use elbow crutches which are much easier to use than under arm crutches.
Was you THR a MOM or ceramic on ceramic?
I am not trying to brag with my story, it is just the experience I and many other De Smet hippies had. I tell it so you understand that you can easily get around after going home. You will be very tired and sleep, sleep and sleep. I did a lot of sleeping in my lazyboy recliner since I just could not sleep well on my back. I was able to sleep on my unoperated side with a pillow between my legs by about 9 days post op. The heprin shots to my tummy seemed to be what kept me from sleeping. We took them for 14 days. Once I quit them, I began to sleep better. Most people have trouble sleeping.
A handful of De Smet bi-lats actually traveled to Belgium alone, stayed alone and returned by themselves after surgery. So if a bi-lat can do that, you should have no problems being at home with a hip resurfacing.
Everyone has a different recovery. The US doctors are normally more conservative than the overseas doctors. They usually are not as experienced so become very conservative to make sure things go right. Dr. De Smet has done over 3000 hip resurfacings and over 3000 THRs. He has it down to a science.
Please let me know what other questions you have.
Pat Webmaster/Owner Surface Hippy