Hi
Congratulations on your surgery date. I started a topic for you so your posts won't be hidden down deep in the last topic.
I can only tell you about my surgery with Dr De Smet in Beligum. I had a general anasthesia and I told them I did not want to remember anything or did not want to get sick since I get nauseated so easily. They gave me a sleeping pill the night before and I don't remember a thing until late until the day of my surgery when it was all done. I had no pain and don't remember if I used the morphine pump or not.
You need to tell them what you want - that way you get it.
You should also ask your doctor what his/her post op protocol is for resuming activities, work and PT. Each doctor has their own idea about what they think is best.
I left the hospital 2 1/2 days after surgery and returned to the Holiday Inn. I slept in a regular bed that was a little higher to make it easier to get in and out. Marc the PT also had me put about 4 large pillows under my legs so they were elevated when I slept. Nose above the Toes - is the saying in Belgium. No TEDS at night. The first few nights are the most uncomfortable. I could not sleep in my recliner until I got home which was 11 days post op. All the time in Belgium I used a regular bed with pillows. Sorta like a lounge chair. About 6 days out, I was able to start to sleep on the unoperated side with a pillow between my legs. That helped if only for an hour or two. The heprin shots seem to keep me awake a night. Once I stopped them at 14 days, I started to sleep well. In the meantime, I would just wake up, move around maybe take a trip to the bathroom and then go back to sleep. You just learn to go with the flow until things get back to normal.
They teach you how to do stairs in the hospital. So if you need to go up and down the stairs - you are able to. You could spend most of the day upstairs during the first few days and only go downstairs for awhile. After a few days, you will be able to do the stairs - slowly - but doable without any great pain. Most people don't have great pain a few days after surgery. There are a few exceptions, but you can hope you will be getting along well.
Here is a list of things most people want or need
http://www.surfacehippy.info/pcwhatwillineed.phpAbout the only thing I needed was the toilet riser. If I needed to pick something up off the floor - I put my newly operated leg in back of me and bent down with my good leg using my crutch or table , etc for support. That way you don't break the 90 degree rule if your doctor has one.
Hips are normally much easier to recover from than knee replacements.
It will be nice to have your hubby there, but he won't have to do much. Getting meals is always nice! tieing your shoes and helping you with socks is what my husband did the most of.
Good Luck and keepin touch!
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