Hi Ross -
The general pain after surgery was really minimal, Dr. Gross prescribes quite a cocktail of drugs that keep you pretty comfortable. My surgery started between 1 and 2pm and it took until nearly 11pm for the spinal to wear off, so that makes for a low pain time. The next day I did find that I could easily move my leg into positions (that did not break the 3 main restrictions) and yet still be in some pretty uncomfortable pain. Again I think this may be partly b/c I has such long legs (37" inseams) and doing single leg squats on the good leg getting out of bed/recliner was a bit of a challenge.
The hospital rooms have both a recliner and a couch that pulls out into a twin size bed. But having been in the hospital before I knew that my wife would get zero sleep that night if she stayed b/c a nurse or tech comes in about every hour or 90 minutes. So I actually sent her over to her aunt & uncles that live in town to get some good rest so she could be fresh to drive me home the next day. I would sort of recommend that. You will be well monitored, completely taken care of, and fully medicated, so you will really be fine. And if you need anything, push the nurse call button and they come right too you. Wrap that nurse call remote device around the bed handle so if you drop it, you can pull it back. Or as a last resort, unhook one of your EKG leads and they will show up immediately!
You really don't need to much gear at the hospital....I brought comfortable boxers, socks, tee-shirts and warmup type pants (sweat pants would do too). And then my shoes were some trail running shoes with pull tight lacing, so they are easy to get on and someone else can get them nice and tight. Oh, and a baseball hat or 2 is nice. And be sure to bring you polar cooler to the hospital, they wrap the pad around you after Lee sews you back up so you are ready for ice as soon as you are in your room. And that cooler seems to take about 4-5 lb of ice, so you may want to stock up on a few bags at home before you head down for surgery.
One other duh-huh observation: The first few nights at home I tried to get into my bed like I always do....from the side....and then rotate and pivot my legs and feet over onto the bed. This movement was less than easy and somewhat painful. And then I realized I could just sit at the foot of the bed and use my arms to lift and pull me back into place. Doh! Much easier, very little pain.....dont know why it took me 2 days to figure that out!
I have been really diligent with the ice machine and elevation and have very minimal swelling around my right hip and basically none below my hip. The pain that I get in some positions still sort of surprises me, but even that is now reducing. This is a long process and I very okay with a slow and steady pace. It is a bit surreal to think that I now have a metal bearing in my body. I did stand up completely straight a few time yesterday and today and before this surgery if I had done that my hip would have "caught" and caused me to slouch back down. Am really looking forward to the future!
Hope this helps. Shoot over any other questions.