Back home safe and sound and feeling well, although I strongly recommend against following in my steps on the flights.
It's the morning of post-op day 4 and pain levels are pretty low. I'm working on weaning off the Nucynta now. I haven't had any immediate release since right after discharge from the hospital, and now I'm cutting back the extended release from 100 to 50mg per 12h. Try for zero tomorrow day, maybe 50mg again tomorrow night, then done. Obviously we'll see how that goes though!
Zero pain directly connected to just weight bearing on the leg. The muscles are still all fairly sore so stabilizing while weighting the leg occasionally tweaks a bit but the bone/implant/bone part of it doesn't seem to have any pain which feels great.
Psoas is still the least co-operative and painful of all, and very obvious when getting in and out of bed or a car (where I need to lift the leg and swing it to the side) but it's definitely better. Heel slides on the bed are now pretty easy and no longer painful.
I can sleep maybe 6 hours in bed at home before my back starts to get sore so I did that last night and then moved to the recliner for a couple of hours in the early morning.
I'm definitely less terrified of hurting myself now as things are clearly moving back toward "normal", but I keep reminding myself that it's only a few days and I really do need to be very careful still!
Alright, flights. We'd decided to splurge on first-class tickets back on American from Columbia to Charlotte and then to home in California (It was several hundred dollars cheaper to start in Columbia than Charlotte, but I knew that first hop was economy regardless). It all turned out OK as I wasn't in much pain anyway, but I would recommend against doing that. Frankly, it was almost comical how rude and incompetent the vast majority of airline and airport employees we interacted with, with a couple of notable exceptions. My wife and I both felt this, as did a few other couples we overheard venting to each other. I know this sounds ridiculous, but I've just never seen anything like it. I'd read about how great Delta had been helping post-op patients -- I felt the opposite with American. We were essentially ignored, given wrong information about how to get a ride around Charlotte ("just go and sit in those red chairs" -- 15 minutes later we're still sitting, ask again, "just sit there", another 15 minutes ask again, "well, why haven't you flagged down one of the carts?"). The gate agent in Charlotte was just plain rude when we asked if she thought we'd be able to get some ice on the plane and then lectured me about how stupid I was to fly after surgery. Anyway, there's lots more than this. The flight attendant on the main flight was much nicer and helped us out and everything worked out in the end, but I needed to vent since it was such a hugely frustrating day! Since people have seemed to have great experiences with Delta flying home from that area after surgery, I recommend following their advice!