Riz, good luck on your surgery!! You're going to do great!
Sheltons and Joe,
You two are going to do great too. Bilateral isn't as scary as it might seem and you've got the major benefit of ONE recovery. Don't get me wrong, it's a big deal and the first couple weeks aren't a heckuva lot of fun but they're very, very do-able. While it's a major, major thing to have this type of surgery and especially two at once, you're going to the very best. Dr. Gross and his staff and the folks at Providence hospital are incredibly good at what they do. You'll be amazed at how well you're cared for in Columbia and how fast your progress will be during recovery. Each day you'll see improvement and you'll go from having worse and worse and worse hips to heading completely in the other direction and just knowing that you're healing instead of doing more damage is a very, very good thing.
If I can offer some advice it would be to go into surgery in the best possible shape you can. After that, it's time to relax and recover. Follow the protocol they give you and, most importantly, listen to your body!
I'd have a very hard time putting into words the positive effect those surgeries have had on my life and I'm only about 5 months out! If either of you have any questions you don't see addressed here, don't hesitate to ask here or to send me a message if you'd prefer and I'd be happy to help in any way I can.
I'd also say that you're both having surgery at the perfect time of year. You can start your recovery in the winter and as spring arrives you're going to be feeling pretty damn good and by summer you'll be ready to get out and REALLY enjoy your new, PAIN FREE hips!
Best of luck to the both of you!