Hi Mcopt,
Welcome to the group. I'm 9.5 months out from bilateral surgery (Dr. Gross last December). You'll hear this often in the forum: "My only regret is I wish I would have done the procedure(s) earlier". That's exactly how I feel. Check out some of our stories here. I wrote about my bilateral surgeries precisely for individuals like you: those considering getting it done.
My assessment of the recovery period was that there was some relatively mild discomfort for a total of one to two days after the 2nd hip was done. As I recall, within 10 days or so, I was walking around the house better than I was before the surgeries. Getting in/out of bed and chairs, walking up stairs etc. was slightly difficult for the first month or so. However, the upside is the constant, nagging pain from arthritis is gone.
Frankly, I had a knee surgery (ruptured quadriceps tendon) that was more difficult to recover from in terms of pain and time to fully recover. I might have been on the luckier side of the equation, with pretty much zero complications post-surgery, but my hip resurfacing story isn't unique. So please read some of our bilateral accounts (and the others while you're at it :-)). It should set your mind at ease (or at least alleviate some of your worries).
Good luck,
Joe