I'm new to the discussion. I've had a "sore" hip for over 10 years, but was always able to bike, hike, swim, and generally be on by feet all day every day. Last year after an 80 mile backpacking trip, the right hip started to really hurt. Still I didn't limp, but I stopped all the exercise I had been doing to get ready for the aforementioned hike. I was climbing steps for hours and walking 15 miles with a pack. Maybe that was too much, but this year it seemed to catch up. Since it was hurting I started to swim instead. The hip hurt so much worse! The kick of the side stroke and that same kick as I swam overhand made the symptoms much worse. Stopped that and the symptoms got better. Radiographs say my hip is bone on bone. I have trouble tying my shoelaces. Putting my right ankle on my knee is pretty limited and sometimes very painful. Lifting my foot off the floor and to the gas pedal in the car sometimes hurts. All that but then some weeks everything seems fine. I'm 67 and always been active. Are there certain symptoms or tests that definitely say "Get your hip fixed!!" Or is it just up to me to do when ever I want. It would seems keeping my natural hip as long as possible is desirable, but then I am getting older every single day. Just retired and want to do things besides be laid up with the post-surgery months of rehabilitation. I need advice or encouragement on what others have done with similar decisions to make.
I'd say all of the symptoms you listed are really good indicators. You've also had some respected surgeons tell you that you are ready.
Human beings seem to be able to get accustomed to some incredible things. I was bone on bone as well, and progressively cut down my athletic activities from
tae kwon do, league basketball, weights, soccer
to
league basketball, weights, soccer
to
weights, soccer
to
weights
I had an excuse for each, but it really was the pain, and in the case of soccer, my left hip started to dislodge from its moorings. That's right, I was dislocating my hip several times during a game (I'd pop it back in).
Stubbornly, I clung to what I was doing because I didn't want to do surgery. Once I got both of my hips done (three month interval), I did therapy, worked out and was fully back to all five sports (no more league BB, though, just regular) and progressing.
It's your call on when to do the deed, but I can tell you it's an incredible relief mentally, emotionally and physically when you do. Bone on bone is a good time to do it.