And they won't ever know how it feels, Jeremy. That's a road only those of us who have shared it know.
Another thing to consider is that as good a shape as you're in right now, your form may eventually be affected by the pain. I noticed that in fighting, I was changing my approach, favoring techniques that were more brute force than my usual evade and counter, since those required quick movements that brought the pain.
The injury you have is not obvious. If you see someone with a cast, or fresh stitches, you acknowledge it and accept that they are in physical trouble. Others see us with outwardly fit bodies and wonder about the pain. Especially in a discipline where pain is an accepted part of each bout.
You are the best judge of what you want to accomplish and when it's possible. There are several martial artists here who have gone back to different activities, including MMA, BJJ, etc.
Whenever you decide you're ready, that will be the right time for you. It's major surgery, so it's not to be done lightly. Whichever you choose, we'll support you.
The only caveat is to keep track of your body with a surgeon so that you're still able to have an HR. Waiting too long can make you ineligible, but that's something only a surgeon can help you with.