Leslie:
For your second opinions....email them outside your "circle"....its FREE...
Look at Pat's surgeon list section of her website for the emails for:
Dr. DeSmet (UK)
Dr. Gross (SC, USA)
Dr. Bose (India)
Dr. Mont (Baltimore, USA)
Send your xrays as jpeg files and make sure to tell your history and what your surgeon has said. You just need your xrays (current ones) on CD from the xray place...then when viewing on your computer, there should be something under one of the menus that says "export"...there it should let you pick where to save it (on your desktop) and what kind of a file (jpeg/jpg).
Please Note: (and this is MY OPINION ONLY)> I think your surgeon is telling you a bunch of crap about young women and resurfacing...because he isn't addressing that he put your cup in wrong and its probably causing impingement (rubbing, pinching)...or possibly a pseudotumor.
Ask him if he's going to "foot the bill" to have someone fix it...
Sorry...I'm ranting....I just get a little heated when people (even surgeons) don't take responsibility for "their" actions.
You need to find out your options...some socket cups can be replaced and your resurfacing saved...but this must be done by a top surgeon who has done this before.
Get the answers from them first...so you know what's going on from an outside "good source"
Please let us know how it goes, and let us know if there's anything we can do...
We are soooo wishing that everything turns out good for you.