Hey Foosball
You did not say how old you are. I am with you - I think playing could have caused a problem. I am most likely much older than you and had my hip resurfaced at 61. I know most people will laugh at this, but I have been a musician all my life. Played clarinet and sax in big bands, conert bands and musicals. I also, however, played accordion all my life. I rested the 29 pound Iorio electronic accordion on my left knee while sitting on a stool. Would play 3-4 hours a day to practice and play 3 hour jobs for years. I believe the heavy accordion on the end of my knee was a cantilever that caused a lot of extra rubbing and pressure on my left hip. The right hip did not have the same problems.
Dr. De Smet said I could go back to playing, but I don't play much now. Mostly play piano or organ to give my hip a break. It does not hurt to play now.
Personally, I would wait a few mor emonths before slamming the pedal down. It takes 6 months to mostly heal and a full year to heal completely. Since you slam it hard, I think there is a very small possiblily you could injure the femur neck or even somehow the cup if not placed quite right. I would be more conservative if it were me. Having a revision is not any fun. I think your doctor probably doesn't understand how aggressive you are. Best to be a bit more careful now so you keep you hip a long time. Sounds like you need to change your style of drumming. Agian, I don't know how old you are - but having major surgery to replay a hip because of a slamming technique is not very good. You will find your body to be very important to you as you get older. You might be lucky and live a long time
Best to try and save your body parts if you can.
Take it easy on the hip for awhile. How are your eardrums doing? I have bad ringing in my ears just from normal band playing. Drives me crazy. I use to play picolo and stopped from the problems with my right ear. Music is great - but hard on the body.
Good Luck. Surely you march to a different beat
Pat