Hi guys, it's been a while! (again)I never did get the MRI that was ordered what, 5 years ago now? The hospital, unfortunately, botched that right up. Received 3 phone calls many months later, by three different people (from same department in hospital) asking if I still wanted the MRI & when I replied yes, they'd say "We'll call you right back, we need..." First person "Oh you have an IUD, I'll call back", 2nd person (asking all the same questions) "Oh, you have an IUD, I'll call back", and third person "OK let's go over the paperwork before I schedule you a date... oh, I'm missing some info. Paperwork is not all here... I'll call you back"!
Ugh... after me calling them back & not getting anywhere, I gave up!
I had to quit my teaching job because I couldn't give a signed document by my surgeon or GP that my hip would not be an issue. I had to stop doing many many things and for all of you who are also active people, you can understand how difficult this was to accept.
As long as I drastically restricted my activities & basically became a couch potato, rested after the moment I felt the hip/glute area tighten up (as well as take OTC extra strength med combos, get deep tissue massages & hot soothing baths), I could recuperate within 24 hrs.
This past year has been the worst though since 2011. The good hip now clicks & spasms where you end up bent over like an old geriatric & the bad hip... well now I understand the slight difference in pain between inflammation & bone pain. I asked my GP I wanted to see Dr. Beaulé but I was told to up my meds, alter lifestyle & maybe cortisone shots. I felt so deflated & just kept asking for a referral.
My GP retired & in came the replacement doc... she was ... well I knew we were not going to get along! I did not want to go back to the type of doctor (the "let's monitor & see" approach") that I had before 2006. I hightailed it out of there & found a wonderful new doctor who listened & explained her approach to why she recommended what she did. I agreed to compromise. If the x-ray showed cortisone would benefit, then I would go ahead with it. The x-ray came back & it was bone on bone! Right there & then she ordered an MRI of both hips (to expedite I had to go to a different city), orbital x-ray (I cut metal) & typed the requisition to Dr. Beaulé right in front of me & sent everything off before I got home!
I hand delivered the CD of the MRI to my GP today (Dr. Beaulé's office was asking for it. Once they have it, they are calling me for an appointment) & I see my GP tomorrow morning.
Many others will relate, your quality of life becomes nil in order to keep the pain under control. And even then, standing, sitting, lying down hurts. I can't put on my shoe by myself, can't be intimate, can't play with my horses or my dog to the level I need to be. You can't sit down or get back up without looking like a 100 yr old sloth contortionist. You feel terrible having to ask for narcotics because taking high doses of OTC acetaminophen, ibuprophen or naproxen doesn't quite work as well without that like opioid kick.
I'm also giving in to husband's & son's request & asking for a temp. handicap parking permit tomorrow (in my mind, there are people who need it more than me but they say no, I need it). I still refuse to use a wheelchair though have my cane handy when I can't even move from where I'm standing. Pride I guess, I've been forced to stop doing so many things in order to function enough. (have gained 30lbs because of it all) You learn to hide it all until it hits the 10/10 mark & then people look at you in utter shock when they see what you are actually dealing with. And they start asking all these questions.
Mind you, my husband & sons know full well the extent of it all. I sound like a person with tourettes with all the screaming bursts of yelps & choice words when that lightning bolt pain sears through. They shout "You ok?", I shout back "Hip", they respond back "Need help?", which means they sometimes need to come rescue me & save me from where I'm stuck. It's scary when it happens in the stairwell.
Anyhoo... wow, 5 years worth on this post... cookies & drinks for everyone that's read through it all.