Hi everyone. I am brand new to this site. I am 43 years old and I have HR scheduled for Dec 14. I'm scared to death. Actually crying as I write this... Not of the surgery, but of going through this all for nothing...
I should start with my backstory...
I've had 2 previous arthroscopic hip surgeries for labrial tears due to FAI. In fact, it seems to have had surgery every 2 years - this next one is just about the 2 year anniversary of the last one.
The first one they just cleaned up the tear. The surgeon said he couldn't believe I was walking as I had so many tears. I actually had run on the tears for months before I broke down to see a doctor. I'm a marathon runner and to us, what's a little pain. (although, when it got obvious something was really really wrong, I did stop running, and right before the surgery I could barely sit without severe pain)
The recovery was hard the first 2 weeks due to terrible amounts of swelling, but after that I was up and about and back to running. Then the tears started to happen again. This time, the went in and did oestoplasty to shave the bones to fit better. While overall I was moving better after surgery, I ached for months. Finally, I got the go ahead to start running again. It was a slow start, but eventually started to train for the Army 10 miler. One bad run last summer and I decided to back off and stick to 5 miles on the treadmill. At least I was still running. Then last April, I did a hard run, then went scuba diving, then went dancing (I was on vacation) - it seemed all these activities at once did me in and I came back unable to walk.
I went to my surgeon and he said I have OA and he had never seen such a severe case progress so quickly. 6 months prior I had no signs of OA. While he thought I needed resurfacing, we decided to try cortisone and PT for a while (I just couldn't wrap my head around OA and a replacement) I was in such terrible pain, but had a little relief. I went back to see my surgeon again a few months later when I realized there was no cure for OA. He recommended Dr. Mont in Baltimore. We also decided to try another cortisone shot. This time, it was a miracle. I was able to run (ok, a mile or two, but I was running), could walk without a limp. I couldn't bring my knee to my chest, but hey, who needs to do that!!! I had some restrictions and a little pain here and there, but I felt great.
This was the state Dr. Mont saw me in. He said I looked fine and he doesn't treat xrays but pain. He said I could keep getting cortisone shots every 3 months for the rest of my life if it helped. But no running as I could damage the bones and then no longer have a window for HR.
As the cortisone shot began to wear off (only really lasted about 1.5 months and the pain slowly came back), I am back to constant pain. I went ahead and scheduled the surgery but now absolutely terrified!!!!
Not of surgery, after 2 I'm a freaking pro at this. Of not getting better. Of being back here in a year or two or even 5 in the same place. Of not giving cortisone more of a try. Of waiting too long. Of waiting not long enough.
Dr. Mont also said I will have no limitations on running and can start as soon as 3-4 months post-op if I wanted.
But am I being foolish just to be able to run again? Should I continue the cortisone for a longer period, knowing I'm pretty young and I will most likely wear out the HR in 10 years. It would mean cycles of pain and feeling great, but there would be lots of good times. I feel odd that I'm doing the surgery even though Dr. Mont said I wasn't in pain so I shouldn't do it.
Everyone who knows someone with a HP/THR said their biggest regret is waiting too long. Which is what is driving me to just get it done. And I know how quickly the pain can come and how severe it can get...don't feel like waiting around for that... But what if I get it done and I still can't run.
I have nowhere to turn and feel very scared. As I write this, it actually is clear there is no reason to wait and a cycles of good and bad between cortisone shots is not a life to live. But it doesn't make it less scary....
Thanks for listening and letting me cry on your shoulder...
Christine