Good morning, Everyone. I'm new here, been lurking and reading for about a week. I have questions about the support you've all gotten from spouses, family and/or friends before and after your surgeries?
My husband was diagnosed with osteo-arthritis in both hips about 8 years ago, and is scheduled for resurfacing on the left hip in January with Dr. Brooks at Cleveland Clinic, the right hip following in May. He's only 48, is a very athletic person, loves to play hockey, run, hike, camp, etc. - you name it. Unfortunately, despite his best efforts to do everything he can to manage the problem (swimming, glucosomine-chondritin, strength training, etc.), his quality of life has deteriorated very badly the last couple of years, and he can barely rake leaves anymore (a problem when you live in NE Ohio!), and he hasn't run or played hockey in probably 2 years or more. He also doesn't sleep well and has trouble with basic things, like tying shoes or getting into the car. His morale is about as low as it can go, I think. This surgery offers his best chance at becoming fully active again, and we are both pretty excited about it.
Anyway - I've been reading this board for many days now, and found a lot of terrific information and general comfort from all of your very positive stories. But - I've not yet seen anything regarding how your families, spouses and/or friends have supported you through this process? My husband and I are a team - we tackle every issue that comes up from a "we" perspective - it just makes everything easier. I assume many of you have support in one form or another, and I just want to know more about the role they play in this process, or the role you wish they had played, so that I can be better prepared and be the best partner possible while my husband is approaching his surgery and recovering from it. Any insight would be very much appreciated.