Danny,
You are so kind to respond, as I have followed your recovery since the beginning and know your pain was probably so much worse than mine. I thought I had high tolerance to pain as I didn't use pain meds post-surgery, but this is just about the worst I've ever had. I've been assured my bones and the implant are perfect by my doc.
I've heard back from a few more folks on the other hippy message boards, and the theme that seems to be running is that recovery seems to be a race to see post and see who can do the most fastest, giving a false impression that one should be up and about, exercising in two to three months without pain. One lady told me she went back to pain meds and two crutches around the eight week mark (she thinks PT hurt her), and it took over four weeks to be pain free.
I've been dealing with this for almost a month, and it's very trying.
June-I haven't been on any blood thinner since week three post-surgery. I actually do have some Lyrica left over from a different issue, so I may try that. I do remember it made me a little weird, but hey, I'm willing to try anything at this point. I think I'm the poster child for intolerance to drugs.
As always, thanks for the responses and support. It's been very hard on my family the last few days, and they are trying to be kind and helpful, but they don't understand like you guys do.
Mindi