Hey Mack, welcome! As everyone mentions, you're in one of the good sites to be for information from people who have had both the motivation to stay active and resurfacing.
You'll find many people here both who are active in different types of sports, jobs, etc. and in different stages of recovery, so you can get an idea of not just how people reached the decision to have an HR, but also who they chose, why they chose them and how they recovered.
Getting these kind of problems in your hips is dispiriting. Especially for people who are used to having very good control of their bodies. That is why I've found this to be the best solution for me. I also had no cartilage left in both hips, bone spurs, etc. I had both done (as several folks have here, like Woodstock, who had both done at the same time), and can tell you that it was the best thing I've done.
There are several surfers here, martial artists (including Danny and me), runners, skiers, rock climbers, etc. As far as jobs, a wide range of them. As far as I know, many people have returned to what they do, or gone on to better.
Like all things, there is a failure rate, something on the order of 3.6% for all types of patients and devices. Nothing is guaranteed, but faced with very good odds like that, I took the plunge and am glad I did. I also got the negative opinions from surgeons who wanted to do a THR, but I thanked them and went on.
As for the area, this is the kind of surgery that doesn't require you to be near your surgeon afterwards. Some folks here have traveled widely to make sure they were treated by a skilled, good surgeon with deep experience. You do have several surgeons who are very capable near you, but don't rule out traveling to other states (Colorado, Washington, S. Carolina, N.York come to mind) to get the best for you. As an example, KirkM, a triathlete traveled from Cali to N.York to have his done by Dr. Su and was very satisfied with it. You might check out his posts.
Like was mentioned, read the posts, it will help you with your research and decision.