Again, I'm a little late, and all I'm doing here is reiterating. I emphatically agree with everyone who has responded.
Monster quads - Wold, Dannyway, and others who have monster quads, aren't having problems. I didn't want to say it, when I first read the post, but I doubt big muscles are the issue.
Surgeon's name - With regards to surgeon's names on the website. I understand your perspective, folks here are generally pretty cautious about surgeon slander. Certainly, Danny wasn't going there. It's more about the experience that the doc has and that should be public info from both the patient's interest and the doc's/docs' practices interest. In HR, experience is the main factor in really really awesome results and moderately awesome results. However, I think you're onto something and I really think a second opinion is in order. Quite possibly a third would be good too.
Don't worry about the surgeon if you go looking for others. They shouldn't have a problem with that and if they do, you should leave even sooner.
Good luck, Hope you get this worked out.