Wayne-o here on the forum has an ASR and there have been a few others, but for someone with an ASR, he is probably the most active here. He's had it since 2006? and he's going strong. His avatar is inspiring, snowboarding and looking agro. He comes and goes here so you might PM him and see if he has some insight.
Clunking is very common and generally folks report that it goes away with daily activity with the legs, like walking, focused PT, cycling, running, things that tighten up the muscles around the hip. I don't know if ASR hippies get more clunking simply because of the slightly unhemispherical cup of the ASR, or not. That was detetrmined to be the problem with it. I have 2 BHRs and I get clunking, lots of folks still get it after several years and I sort of expect that it will never go away, but it certainly diminishes with increased daily activity. I'm not sure if you can correlate extra clunking to the ASR's shape or not.
Keep in mind the ASR has a 15% failure rate or something in that area. That's not as bad as the press and the lawsuit makes it out to be. I don't recall the reference to that info, but Pat probably does. It may have been an FDA summary on the whole lawsuit blowout. Regardless, I'm pretty sure Pat more info about the ASR on this site.
What do you think about the possibility of slight mods to the pelivs from pregnancy or temporarilly during pregnancy that might make soft tissue around the hip adjust and cause some discomfort or mild pain? Seems possible to me, but I think you should ask the doc about that.
Lots of folks mention discomfort or mild pain in there hips or upper leg from excessive activity or even the occasional pain but it goes away, so I wouldn't worry too much about it unless it continues to get worse and you don't have an obvious source, like excercise,... I think the failure symptons of the ASR are generally the same in all MoM HRs having to do with reactions to elevated metal ions from excessive wear, which is the basis of the ASR failure. Those symptons are pain in the hip, x-rays with signs of degradation, fluid around the prosthesis, elevated Co and Cr in blood.
I think your best approach is to do a little more research here and see what more you find out about the ASR, organize your questions for the doc, and try not to worry. Schmalzired is a very experienced surgeon, so you should get a lot of these questions answered.
Also, this site has a ton of info, and a lot of good folks willing to help you out with info and especially support. Hang in there.