Thanks for the responses, it really helps to know there are other people in similar situations.
@Beth - that is how I've been feeling, like I'm crazy. I have been in constant pain for 10 months now and after x-rays, contrast MRI (showed irritation of the labrum, but no tear), PT (sorry, nothing we can do for a joint issue), and a cortisone shot (worked for 8 weeks then wore off - ouch), to sit in the ortho's office and have him say, 'there's not really anything to do because the things I would normally tell someone, lose weight and exercise, you don't need to do/are already doing and the surgery for treating hip dysplasia (PAO) isn't really done anymore so here are some anti-inflammatories and I can refer you to a surgeon if you want.' Good grief! It was like he was telling me the pain was in my head or something - super frustrating.
I am so glad to have found this site and to see that there is so much information out there about HR. Makes me really love the Internet
I'm researching as much as I can before my consult on Feb 11th with Dr. Benjamin Bengs at UCLA. It will be very interesting to see what he says because HR is listed under his 'Clinical Interests' and I was told he does do the surgery, but he's not listed on any forum or HR site.
Thanks again to everyone for the support!