Having a difficult time with my physical limitations.
Morning Luz!
I know what you mean. my surgery was 1-03-14, bilateral. I am home now since this weekend, everything is difficult, everything is different. we all have been active and strong people before surgery and this first days at home we feel like stranded mushrooms. I need help to have a shower, I need to ask for nearly everything, has something fallen to the ground, it also can be on the moon.........
we are still in the process to organize my environment.
then there is the psychological aspect; I am not used to ask for something and Thomas is not used to be asked. we deal with this topic with "open talks".
the icing helps me a lot. I have 4 gel-pads; always 2 in the fridge and 2 in use. I try to cool as often as possible. it reduces the bruising/swelling and takes away some of the muscle itches. every 1 to 1,5 hours I walk around and make my exercises. also each time I raise, I give myself a duty; like, bring back a banana from the fridge, go, brush your teeth, pour yourself a glass of juice in the kitchen, ....... whatever
so, I try to feel more independent again. yes I know, small steps, but I give myself each time a "high5" when I managed a duty.
be patient and cool down!