Sunshine. Hi. Yep been there and done all that. Had failures with scoping and my hips never recovered the issue of groin pain never went away. As the hip wears with pincer and or cam dominant the muscles and tendons give up on those areas due they cannot function as they would like to. I have had groin pain for the last nine years. I could not find a surgeon to help me in NZ as my hips had worn due to activity and pincer dominant wear. The pain is unbearable at times and the life sentence I went through was crap. Finally 8 years on and 7 of those on crutches Dr De Smet sorted the issue.
The operation was made even more difficult by the FAI surgeon due to taking away much needed bone he could have used be WELL AWARE OF THIS.
My groin pain is abating (tendon, quads, iliopsoas, adductors) are getting back to normal. I had poor bone blood circulation so I could not get an un-cemented femur component due to all the arthroscopy work and delays that never worked.
Dr De Smet Belgium does women small sizes and increments of 2 mm so you get almost the exact fit.
I can say I am not yet fully rehab ed due to the extent long time of weakness but it is coming back.
I say skiing is not an issue as I am doing glut max squats at present to build up lost muscle this is helping the groin pain. I myself would love to ski again as I lost years years back due to floppy hips.
In hind site I lost years of my life mucking around when De Smet indicates of all things these may last the rest of your life. The success rate is excellent if installed correctly.
I wish I had the opportunity when this happened your doing the right thing ask around.
Your on heaps of drugs this itself indicates the problem.
Not that I can feel your pain you have my empathy on the situation. Your hips as well may never wear further than they are now at present so you could be like this for the rest of your life. That is what happened at my point of FAI it never got any worse. On Paper it looked good but it was the issue.
Ok that's my experience of the whole FAI - Hip thing in a nut shell.
A congenital issue you seeming cannot fix especially if your pincer dominant.
Cheers Karl