Hi Rag33,
I am just a little further along than you. Almost 5 week post op now and I can totally relate to your anxiety about what to do/not to do. I was just like that in my first 2 weeks. The advice you got from jimbone on doing those simple exercises (ankles, isometric quads, etc.) worked great for me. I did not do them the first week and then started cramping a little bit at night. As soon as I started doing them, the cramping went right away. I also put too much pressure on myself to walk (with the walker and cane) the first 2 weeks. Now, I am walking great without anything and have to keep reminding myself I just had an operation. I want to share that with you as I hope you will find that encouraging. But if I could go back in time about 3 weeks, I would have taken the pressure off myself to try to walk so much with the walker and cane. The hip socket gets really torn up in this operation. There's no substitute for time to heal. But it is truly amazing how much my hip has healed in just 4 weeks. Try to over-analyze or agonize too much about what to do/not to do. I did a lot of that. Just to what you can to listen to your body, take it easy, get good rest, do the simple exercises and slowly work up to walking around the house a little with the walker/cane/crutches. You will see that by week 3 and 4 you are really well on your way to full recovery. I should say that this has been my experience. I felt so good I even started lifting weights (while sitting down or lying down on a bench) for my upper body and walking about half a mile a day on the treadmill (slow pace). You'll be there before you know it. For now, give your body (and mind) the rest it needs to heal.
Hang in there! It gets MUCH better!
Chris