Lynn Beyler My Second BHR with Dr. De Smet
Dearest Hippys,
Hip #2 is going well here in Gent Belgium. Everyone says
that I am doing much better then I did for the first one,
but I thought I did great the first time! It is easier
though. I am fondly beginning to think of it as a three day
“time out” that I had to take to get repaired.
The second hip was easier ~ knowing what to expect is more
then half the battle. Dr. DeSmet or whoever your doctor is
fights the other half for you. Maybe it is in the fight that
we find life again. At least we make a conscious decision
how we want to live the rest of our lives. Pain could find
no partner with me. It was the most useless feeling. I left
mine on DeSmets table – twice. There was a big pile of it
there where others had gone before me. That was really how
it felt. I fought it for 3 years never knowing what was
wrong with me. Discovery for me was Nov 13, 2004. Here it is
June 1, 2005 just 7 months later and I am completely free
from bone on bone hip pain. That is a miracle.
Now my butt still looks like a battle was fought on it
recently! I had the staples out last night and
ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!! Did that ever feel nice! The new nurse
Bart is wonderful. He is spraying my incision with something
to kill the staph that lives on all skin so I don’t run into
trouble like I did last time.
My exercises are going well with Marc the PT doc. Strangely;
stairs seem to be harder this time for me. I can’t seem to
pick the right leg for down and the left one (done in Feb.)
for up. The one resurfed in Feb is very strong and
absolutely like normal. It is really hauling me around quite
nicely now. On day 4 after surgery I went down to one
crutch. Today is the 5th day and I have already gotten up
and walked to the door to answer it without any crutch at
all. Not even thinking to get it, just walking away. It is
about 10 minutes later that I looked for it, realizing I had
left it behind. This DID NOT happen the first time. My left
side was way worse and my recovery was much longer. I didn’t
wait so long to resurf the right side and the bonus turned
out to be the recovery was much quicker.
Hoping you are all doing well at whatever stage you find
yourselves in. If anyone has any questions feel free to
write, the next 6 days will be the most time I have to write
back in the next century!
Oh by the way, I didn’t tell you this. I got my insurance to
pay for all of it! Maybe there are too many stories on here
already about American insurance paying in foreign
countries, I don’t know because I haven’t written for so
long. I don’t want to bore you so let me know if you want
any tips.
Lovies,
Lynn Beyler